By Jennifer Coburn, Planned Parenthood\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n There\u2019s a common misperception that parents and their children are so uncomfortable discussing sexuality that they avoid the topic altogether. While that may have been true at one point, the notion is dated, according to a recent study conducted by Planned Parenthood and New York University\u2019s Center for Latino Adolescent and Family Health. The survey of more than 1,600 sets of parents and their children found that neither teens nor parents let embarrassment get in the way of having conversations about sexuality.<\/p>\n At Planned Parenthood, we are encouraged by the fact that eight out of 10 young people and their parents have talked about sexuality. And of the parents who have talked to their children about sexuality, nearly half reported beginning by age 10; 80 percent started talking by age 13. This is good news, because when there is healthy dialogue between parents and their children, risk factors reduce dramatically. Teens who can talk to their parents about sexuality have lower rates of unintended pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. In fact, they are more likely to delay the onset of sexual activity.<\/p>\n The fact that parents are talking to their children about sexuality is a move in the right direction, but there are some areas where communication can be improved. One of the major findings of the new study was that parents aren\u2019t talking enough \u2014 or in enough detail \u2014 about critical topics that can help young people make healthy decisions.<\/p>\n Parents need to be specific when discussing issues of sexuality. Only 20 percent of parents have discussed types of birth control, strategies for saying \u201cno\u201d to sex, and how to access information. Less than one-third of parents have talked to their kids about where to get reproductive health care services. The new study also suggests that the critical issue is not helping parents or their children become more comfortable with conversations about sexuality, but rather encouraging them to have clear, ongoing discussions.<\/p>\n Healthy dialogue between parents and their teens is critical because the U.S. has one of the highest rates of teen pregnancy in the industrialized world with 750,000 young women 15 \u2013 19 years old becoming pregnant each year. Although people 15 \u2013 24 years old account for only 25 percent of sexually active people in the U.S., they make up 50 percent of reported cases of sexually transmitted infections annually.<\/p>\n As the nation\u2019s largest provider of sex education, Planned Parenthood is here to support parents and teens as they have more frequent and in-depth discussions about issues that really matter. We offer family communication presentations at community organizations, church groups and parent clubs, often at no cost. We have published booklets and brochures with medically accurate, age-appropriate information. And PlannedParenthood.org<\/a> is always here for both parents and teens looking for accurate information.<\/p>\n Planned Parenthood wants to help parents be their children\u2019s primary resource for information on sexuality. \u201cLet\u2019s Talk\u201d Month is a wonderful opportunity to highlight the importance of family communication, but remember that we\u2019re here for sexuality education \u2014 and reproductive and sexual health care services \u2014 every month, every day. We\u2019re working with families to raise the healthiest generation ever. Good conversations are the best place to start.<\/p>\n PlannedParenthood.org<\/strong><\/a> has resources, guidance, videos, and apps designed to make starting and continuing these conversations easier and richer.<\/p>\n Resources for parents at\u00a0PlannedParenthood.org\/Parents<\/a>\u00a0include a tips video<\/a>, educational videos<\/a> in English and Spanish for talking about specific issues, tip sheets<\/a>, and guidance for talking with children of all ages about a variety of topics, as well as information on setting boundaries, helping teens delay sex, parenting LGBTQ kids, and more.<\/p>\n For middle schoolers, there are two quizzes to help girls and boys set an intention to wait to have sex until they\u2019re ready, called\u201cWhat\u2019s Your Love Personality?<\/a>\u201d and \u201cWhere Do You Stand?<\/a>\u201d There is also a game called \u201cThe Kickback<\/a>\u201d to help middle schoolers practice saying no to sex and other types of peer pressure like being offered drugs and alcohol. Middle schoolers can also benefit from\u201cWhat\u2019s Your Future Plan?<\/a>,\u201d which helps them think through how becoming a teen parent could affect their future plans. Parents can check out these tools and recommend them for their middle schooler.<\/p>\n For older teens, we offer games and quizzes to help teens set an intention to start and keep using both birth control and condoms to prevent unintended pregnancy and STIs when they do become sexually active, called \u201cBeen There, Done That<\/a>\u201d and \u201cIt Takes Two<\/a>.\u201d \u201cMy Birth Control<\/a>\u201d is a quiz to help pick a birth control method, which teens and their parents can look through together to learn about some of the best birth control options when ready. Parents can check out these tools and recommend them for their high schooler.<\/p>\n Teens of all ages can check out \u201cAwkward or Not?<\/a>\u201d to get ready to talk to their parents. They can even send a text to their parents at the end to get the conversation started.<\/p>\n
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