{"id":238891,"date":"2017-01-06T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-01-06T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sdnews.com\/money-lessons-are-learned-not-taught\/"},"modified":"2017-01-06T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2017-01-06T08:00:00","slug":"money-lessons-are-learned-not-taught","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.sdnews.com\/es\/money-lessons-are-learned-not-taught\/","title":{"rendered":"Money lessons are learned, not taught"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Por Taylor Schulte | Noticias financieras<\/p>\n<p>Our behaviors and attitudes towards money start forming early and maybe earlier than we think.<\/p>\n<p>As a\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/mascdn.azureedge.net\/cms\/mas-habit-formation-and-learning-in-young-children-executive-summary.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Cambridge University study<\/a>\u00a0on childhood money behaviors showed, kids can learn and take on new processes and tendencies by age 7.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u201cApproaches, practices and skills which are modeled, discussed and demonstrated by parents and other significant adults, are most likely to be influential \u2018levers,\u2019 supporting the development of efficient habits and practices,\u201d the study noted.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_11221\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-11221\" style=\"width: 197px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-11221 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/sandiegodowntownnews.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/Screen-Shot-2017-01-04-at-11.59.47-AM.png\" alt=\"Money lessons are learned, not taught\" width=\"197\" height=\"219\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 197px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 197\/219;\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-11221\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">taylor schulte<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>On the flip side, however, teaching your kids money lessons or \u201cexplicit forms of financial knowledge\u201d appears to be \u201cineffectual in shaping or changing their behaviors.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In other words, the financial actions our children observe \u2014 good or bad \u2014 could impact them for life. Further,\u00a0what our kids\u00a0see\u00a0is a lot more important than what we\u00a0say.<\/p>\n<p>For parents, this revelation may be both exciting and frightening. If we\u2019re able to show our kids positive money habits and skills early, the study showed, we may set them up for a lifetime of success. But if we don\u2019t teach our children early \u2014 or they pick up negative ideas about money elsewhere \u2014 it might be harder to teach\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.sdflc.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">financial literacy<\/a>\u00a0later down the line.<\/p>\n<p>As my wife and I gear up to have our first child in April, I\u2019ve found myself reflecting on things that\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.staywealthysandiego.com\/teaching-kids-cash\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">my family taught me about money at a young age<\/a>. Which life experiences taught me positive money habits, and how could I possibly impart those ideas on my own child?<\/p>\n<p>Thinking through my past while planning the future has been a\u00a0fun exercise. The more I challenge myself to dig up old memories, the more lessons I come up with.<\/p>\n<p>Like that one time my grandfather saw me walk over a penny on the ground without picking it up. He quickly taught me that 100 pennies are worth a dollar; that every little bit adds up. To this day, I can\u2019t walk past change on the ground without thinking about how disappointed my grandfather would be if I didn\u2019t stop.<\/p>\n<p>Another time, my father bought me a life-sized crayon piggy bank. It probably took us years to fill it up, but I still remember the day when we cashed in all that change. While my dad gave me this gift mostly for fun, the experience still taught me <a href=\"http:\/\/www.staywealthysandiego.com\/whats-easiest-way-save-money\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to save<\/a> and delay gratification.<\/p>\n<p>And for sure, I\u2019ll never forget a trip I made to the bank with my mom at age 7. She opened up my first savings account and helped me deposit my first $20. When the first statement came in the mail, she showed me how to read it and taught me about earning interest. This experience forced me to take\u00a0responsibility over\u00a0my money at a young age \u2014 and that compound interest was truly magic.<\/p>\n<p>With a baby on the way, it\u2019s more important than ever for me to model the money behaviors I want to see in the world. And for me, that means being responsible with the money I work so hard to earn and investing as if my future depends on it, because it does.<\/p>\n<p>But I also know that telling my child won\u2019t be enough. I have to show him or her, slowly but surely, and in ways that will resonate long after I\u2019m gone.<\/p>\n<p>Para ver la versi\u00f3n original de este art\u00edculo, visite <a href=\"http:\/\/www.staywealthysandiego.com\/kids-money-lessons\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">tinyurl.com\/gm4eltt<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u2014Taylor Schulte, CFP, es el CEO de\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.definefinancial.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Definir financiera<\/a><em>\u00a0y el fundador de\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.staywealthysandiego.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">StayWealthySanDiego.com<\/a><em>\u00a0y le apasiona ayudar a las personas a tomar decisiones inteligentes con su dinero. Puede comunicarse con \u00e9l al 619-577-4002 o\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"mailto:info@staywealthysandiego.com\">info@staywealthysandiego.com<\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Taylor Schulte |\u00a0Finance News Our behaviors and attitudes towards money start forming early and maybe earlier than we think. 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