{"id":223546,"date":"2016-02-26T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-02-26T08:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sdnews.com\/gen-x-in-a-millennial-world-feb-26-2016\/"},"modified":"2016-02-26T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2016-02-26T08:00:00","slug":"gen-x-in-a-millennial-world-feb-26-2016","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/test.sdnews.com\/es\/gen-x-in-a-millennial-world-feb-26-2016\/","title":{"rendered":"Gen-X in a Millennial World \u2013 Feb. 26, 2016"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Por Genevieve A. Suzuki<\/p>\n<p>Although there\u2019s a generational divide between my mom and I when it comes to parenting, I wish I was half as brave as she was when I was a baby.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>My mom just turned 82, twice the age she was when she had me at 41. Coincidentally, I turn 41 this year and have a baby of my own. But things have changed a bit since I was an infant in my mom\u2019s arms. For one thing, I don\u2019t have to struggle with cloth diapers or shoddy disposables. Babies \u2018R\u2019 Us, which we conveniently have here in La Mesa, sells all kinds of diapers, wipes and what-nots right down the street.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou\u2019re lucky,\u201d my mom will say as she watches me struggle to diaper my 8-month-old, who has learned to turn his naked torso an unnatural 180 degrees on the changing table. \u201cWe didn\u2019t have all of those fancy things available to us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lamesacourier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/GenX1web.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2252\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2252 size-full lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/lamesacourier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/GenX1web.jpg\" alt=\"GenX1web\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 600px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 600\/450;\" \/><\/a>And while it\u2019s true that she didn\u2019t have access to a warehouse full of baby necessities, she also had the kind of confidence only a person who helped raise three younger siblings and two other daughters would have.<\/p>\n<p>For instance, there is a photo of me as a child, sitting beneath an apple tree in Tacoma, Washington. If either of my kids sat under an apple tree, I would be madly obsessed with making sure they weren\u2019t going to be stung by a bee or bopped on the head by fallen fruit. My mom? She only has good memories of me enjoying the apples.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, there are times where I wonder how I survived my childhood.<\/p>\n<p>My son, Deacon, is starting to teethe. As such, we\u2019ve purchased a hundred different teething toys designed to calm, soothe and trick him into chilling out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOh, well, you should try what we used,\u201d my mom said, peering at one of my brightly colored plastic tools before it was flung across the room by a fat, tiny, furious fist.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat\u2019s that, Mom?\u201d I asked, feeling frustrated that she didn\u2019t just volunteer the information without the usual prompt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cJerky.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWait \u2014 you gave me jerky \u2026 as a baby? To teethe?!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou loved it. Your grandfather couldn\u2019t believe how much you loved it. And it worked!\u201d she said before smugly adding, \u201cWe also gave you chicken bones.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We sat there for a minute, staring at each other as I tried to figure out the joke.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou didn\u2019t give me chicken bones,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYes, we did. You loved that, too!\u201d she grinned, lost in what seemed to be among her favorite memories: me as a baby gnawing on beef jerky and chicken bones.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/lamesacourier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/GenX2web.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2253\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-2253 lazyload\" data-src=\"https:\/\/lamesacourier.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/GenX2web-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"GenX2web\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/225;\" \/><\/a>In an attempt to follow this up a few days later, my mom showed me a photo of me as a toddler.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAwwww,\u201d I said. \u201cIs this me and our dog, Schatzi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYep,\u201d she said. \u201cRead the back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The back of it said, \u201cDog (4 mo.) Genevieve (17 mo.) She has her eyes shut ready for an attack from the dog. She is holding the dog\u2019s chew bone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIsn\u2019t that funny?\u201d she laughed, watching my face.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMom, this is awful! Was I really scared?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe wouldn\u2019t have let anything happen to you! You were fine!\u201d she said, cackling harder.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t know about fine, but I can now safely say that I am a survivor.<\/p>\n<p>So maybe I take some of my mom\u2019s bravery and temper it with some of my healthy caution. Leave the chicken bones, but keep the apples. And for goodness\u2019 sake \u2014 keep the kids away from dogs if they\u2019re holding their chew toys.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Genevieve A. 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